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How To Mix Patterns with Confidence for Beginners

How To Mix Patterns with Confidence for Beginners

Sarah Duff
Published on: 01/12/2025

Learn how to mix patterns with confidence using a simple 3-step framework. Easy print mixing tips, outfit ideas, and styling advice for beginners.

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Wardrobe Full of Second-Hand Finds but Still Nothing to Wear? Here’s What to Do

Wardrobe Full of Second-Hand Finds but Still Nothing to Wear? Here’s What to Do

Sarah Duff
Published on: 03/11/2025

If your wardrobe’s full of second-hand finds that were a bargain but never actually get worn, you’re not alone. This post breaks down why thrifting isn’t the same as curating and how to shop second-hand in a way that actually works for your style.

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